At the end of every month I open my Hobonichi Cousin planner and assess how my month went in regards to habits, scheduling, and my month’s goals. Yes, dates (and time in general) are a fabrication of mankind and may seem arbitrary – but there is a lot of power in making a fresh start every month.
In this post I will break down my process for mapping out my monthly goals and how you can follow those steps to become a better and more balanced you.
The Three-Step Process: Reflect, Ideate, & Create
When I was researching different methods of goal creation, I came across this wonderful video by struthless. From his process for creating goals for a new year, I created an abridged version for a month-to-month plan. I still suggest you check out his video (and his entire channel) if you want to know more or go more in-depth with your plan.
Step One: Reflect
Before you can plan how to make this month better than the last, you need to first see what went well and what went poorly in the last. Ask yourself (and write out your thoughts about) these three questions:
- What excited me?
- What drained me of energy?
- What did I learn?
My thinking process (yes, it is messy – but that’s me!) looked something like this:

Step Two: Ideate the Perfect Month
Next, assess two or three actions in each category that you could take to make you month better in these ten categories:
- Personal Life & Family
- Work, Studies, Profession
- Belongings
- Relaxation, Hobbies, Creativity
- Friends & Community
- Health & Fitness
- Intellectual
- Emotional & Spiritual
- Finances
- Bucket List
While you are typically thinking of all of these aspects in them back of your mind, specifically writing them out on paper makes the action plan much more clear and in-reach.
After all of your thoughts are written out, write these questions (warning: things are about to get introspective):
- Why do you want this?
- Who do you have to be to do these things?
- What would you have to say no to?
- What would you have to say yes to?
- How will you persevere through hardship?
- Why do you deserve this?
Again, here is my messy thought process:

Step Three: Create Goals & Habits
Finally, see which of these actions you would like to pursue the most and make them into habits. The Hobonichi Cousin has 10 slots in its habit tracker, but if you are new to habit tracking I would suggest you start with no more than six and work up from there. Here are the habits that I decided to go with:

I also like to pick three major goals and map them out on the daily page that begins each month in my Hobonichi. This month I chose to focus on friends, finding my creative identity, and giving myself time for inner awareness.

To see my entire monthly planning process, check out my Plan With Me video for April:
I hope that you gained some insight on planning your monthly goals from this post! If you would like to learn more about productivity, habits, wellness, and creativity follow my blog and subscribe to my YouTube channel. If you are a fan of the Hobonichi, I also have a Facebook group where members share how they use their planners and journals.
Do you have another way of creating monthly goals? Let me know in the comments!

